TTC but had 3 MC now having to go see a fertility doctor

[HopefulSmile14]

I have had 3mc one at 14 weeks 4days one at 5weeks and at 7weeks but my last two could not see a fetal pole so I went to see my doctor once I grieved now she wants me to go see a fertility doctor I'm so nervous I don't know what the tests are so scared :(

[Tryingno1]

Sorry to hear hopeful :(
How r u holding up?
The tests will mainly be blood tests checking your thyroid, clotting and a number of other things.
You might need an uss to check your ovaries too. And your partner will have 1 blood test to check his karotype (chromosomes).

It's all quite a blur when it happens...but at least your getting the right care and fingers crossed they can help you.

50 percent of time there is no cause and it's "bad luck"..but the other times they can find a reason and offer treatment

I'm so sorry for your losses.

[HopefulSmile14]

I'm holding up ok now finally as the months have gone by you get a lot stronger

Thank you so much for you information it's really helped me not be so nervous about going for them lol well I'm going to have a job getting my other half to have a blood test lol he is scared of needles lol oh dear

I really do appreciate your reply sweet thank you

[Tryingno1]

No worries..I've had 3 miscarriages too so now it is :(
The appt isn't at all scary. It's to try help you find out if there is a reason...
They will ask for dates of your miscarriages and how far along u were too...just to prepare u
Ps lots of Miscarriage groups on mumsnet with supportive helpful kind women if u want to join them/ask questions. (In the
Miscarriage section)

[HopefulSmile14]

It's so heartbreaking miscarrying specially when a baby is all you want
Hopefully they can help me have they helped you at all? If you don't mind me asking I'm hoping they don't find nothing wrong and was just bad luck :(

[Tryingno1]

No cause found for me. So I've pursued nk testing which is only done privately....I figured I was youngish (29 first miscarriage) and didn't feel comfortable with them saying go away try again there's nothing wrong...so I ended up in going down the nk route. It's a bit controversial and not much evidence but I believe and hope it will work for me! I'm trying to get preg after my last miscarriage so no sucess story from me yet! But lots of women on the miscarriage boards with happen endings :)

[HopefulSmile14]

I really hope things work out for you sweet it's hard to start planning for a family then you lose that one little peanut that you have been waiting for for so long to just be taken away from you in a flash

[Tryingno1]

It is.
All the best to u too and hope the clinic are helpful and supportive
X

[HopefulSmile14]

Thank you so much let me know when you get that amazing bfp take care hunni baby dust to you