I had a mc in fab......

(11 Posts)
Kittycat1991 Thu 08-May-14 22:04:38

Now I'm late 3 days late for my period

I don't want to give myself any false hopes what should I do,

I don't want to tell my partner untill I know for sure because he was so gutted when I had the mc and he was blaming himself :/

What do you think I should do ladies ?

Squeakybeaky Thu 08-May-14 22:11:14

I would definitely test. It's the only way you'll know! I really really hope it's positive for you x

Doodleloomoo Thu 08-May-14 22:13:37

There really is only one thing to do and it involves peeing and a stick.

I also got my hopes up last month after a mc in Jan, I was visiting relatives so I didn't do a test. I was consumed with wondering for four days before my period arrived. I wish I'd have just done a test early so the disappointment want so great.

Sorry you had to go through a mc, and I hope you get the news you are after.

Squeakybeaky Thu 08-May-14 22:16:34

Please let us know x

Kittycat1991 Thu 08-May-14 22:29:14

Thankyou ladies

I will do a test as soon as possible,

It was my first mc and first time seeing a BFP ;/ and it just went down hill :/

I'm just so scared of doing it and getting a BFN :/ it will break my heart I haven't been on here since the mc

I'm sorry to hear about your mc sad

X

Kittycat1991 Fri 09-May-14 15:57:22

Okay things are getting worse, I'm late for my period and I think my boyfriend is leaving me :/

KittyVonCatsington Fri 09-May-14 16:40:25

Oh dear-sorry to read the last post!
I too had an early mc in Feb and 4 days late now (than my previous longer chemical cycle and 9 days late from my normal cycles before chemical). Two BFNs so far (last one Monday morning).

Thinking it will either be an anovulatory cycle or late BFP but only time will tell.

What makes you think your boyfriend is leaving-did you have an argument? Offering a brew and cake .

Kittycat1991 Fri 09-May-14 17:14:41

We have been kicked out his moms house,

And he is moving in with his uncle, because he will not move in with me at my parents,

Really confused and I think I'm just over thinking the situation,

But I just have a bad feeling maybe before I'm worried about what the out come will be.

We have had a chat and he assures me that he isn't leaving me but I just hate waiting to hear from the council for a flat

X

KittyVonCatsington Fri 09-May-14 17:17:54

That sucks-sounds very stressful for you. Men can be very bad at communicating at times, so hopefully, it's just temporary!

Doodleloomoo Fri 09-May-14 20:24:32

How rubbish and stressful for you. I think you should take a test asap so the not-knowing is one sight off your mind. If it's negative, well, you started the month not pregnant and nothing will have changed. If it's positive the sober you know the better.

I would gently suggest that you two have some things that are best resolved before becoming parents. Why won't get move in with you? Do either of you work? Are you very young? What is stopping the two of you from renting a place together? Not your original question I know. Pregnancy, childbirth, and particularly early motherhood make you more vulnerable than you have ever been. You need to be secure in your feelings and situation, and supportive of each other to have a good shot at it and come out the other side stronger, as you should.

Doodleloomoo Fri 09-May-14 20:26:24

I meant the sooner... but sober works well too! grin Apologies for all other typos too.

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