No AF, three days late! BFN x 2! Anyone experience this & get a positive later?

(38 Posts)
HardlyHappenstance Fri 22-Mar-13 13:16:47

Hey, ladies..

BFN and three days late for AF! My bb's are so sore, up into my armpits and a bit of colostrum comes out if squeezed.. I have been checking my cervix and if AF were going to come, I guess it would be down low and dry, but NOPE, it's not; it's high, soft, closed, wet and practically invisible against the wall up there! I am also having a bit of hip pain, which has happened in both of my first two pregnancies, almost immediately. So, my question is... I just really want to know has anyone had a BFN after three days, only to find out later that is is a big fat +++++++! ????

Mrsdot Mon 08-Sep-14 13:49:39

This is my first post. Me and my husband are on our fourth month of TTC. Last month I had a shorter cycle than normal at 25 days and now I am on day 28 this month which is the norm when I was on the pill.I have had some cramping last week so thought my AF was going to appear, however it's still not. I do have brown discharge showing only when I wipe and it's wet. I did a test yesterday and got a BFN but my sample was poor. Has anyone ever experienced this and been pregnant? We are so desperate and both in our 20's and fit and healthy.

Leeslocket12 Wed 27-Mar-13 18:40:25

Exactly and how much of the symptoms are coincidence! Still no AF still BFN confused thanks for everything from everyone on this thread I will let you all know either way x

Trinpy Wed 27-Mar-13 17:06:25

thanks lees. constipation and heartburn are both symptoms. but then almost everything seems to be a preg symptom hmm . still hoping you get a bfp!

Aunt Flo, i.e. your period.

JoJoManon Wed 27-Mar-13 13:53:04

What does AF mean?

Leeslocket12 Wed 27-Mar-13 12:53:47

Thanks guys that gives me a but of hope! Although I have no symptoms so am doubtful! Although constipated and heart burn not sure if they are symptoms or not? Certainly don't feel sick sad

WillYouDoTheBunnyHop Wed 27-Mar-13 12:23:38

I had the same as MrsHB BFN until a week late, when I was scanned they put me back a week slid obviously ovulated later than average. Fx for you

Don't know if this helps but AF was a week late before I got a BFP. I'd had 6 negatives before from various types of tests. I just 'knew' I was pregnant but kept getting negatives. I'd recently miscarried, was desperate to be pregnant again & thought my body was playing horrible tricks.

That BFP is now 6 months old & asleep on me at the moment.

Leeslocket12 Wed 27-Mar-13 12:06:28

Good luck with everything trinpy hope you finally get some answers! Keep us posted x

Trinpy Wed 27-Mar-13 11:49:56

yeah, stress probably doesn't help matters.

I've just registered with a new doctor today who is lovely and very understanding of the situation. I'm hoping she's going to refer me on to a specialist at long last smile .

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn Wed 27-Mar-13 07:16:12

Trinpy that's an awful thing for your mum to say angry. Tell her to wind her neck in, it's no wonder you are feeling stressed which won't help matters.

Leeslocket12 Tue 26-Mar-13 22:54:04

Hmm I have been obsessing over the whole thing a bit so I wonder if that's why it's delayed! Was out tonight and didnt really think about it so was hoping relaxing would bring it on. Well good luck to everyone who go AF for next month smile

Trinpy Tue 26-Mar-13 18:49:36

How strange, thats so similar to what I had. The tiniest drops of brown blood for 3.5 days and then pinkish on day 10.

I hope you get your bfp soon. I think I must be broken...

Leeslocket12 Tue 26-Mar-13 18:20:13

Well if my cycle was 28 days this time which they have been up till now the discharge started 5dpo and lasted 6 days. My periods are very heavy and I didn't even need a pad for this. I then had a tiny pink dot when I wiped on what would be about 10dpo but nothin apart from that but now (assuming a 28 day cycle) I'm 3 days late! I reckon just keep shaggin in case that was my period lol!

Trinpy Tue 26-Mar-13 16:03:43

Might have been Lees, how long ago was it?

I had perfect cycles before ttc too. My mum keeps telling me she can't understand why I'm having so many problems because all the women in our family, inc her, get pregnant at the drop of a hat, first month trying angry.

Leeslocket12 Tue 26-Mar-13 15:33:22

Hmmm I had 6 days of something started off as brown discharge And mainly stayed like that wih the odd light coloured blood. Wonder if that could have been an early period for me too! God I was so regular when not ttc!!!

Trinpy Tue 26-Mar-13 14:30:09

Sorry to hear you all had af. Day 25 for me... The doctors suspect that a hormona imbalance is causing my erractic cycles, so I'm wondering if that also caused me to have a very early period. I had bleeding on and off between 6-10 dpo. It was only the tiniest drops of blood but maybe that was my lot for this month.

essie81 Tue 26-Mar-13 08:35:45

Booo hiss. AF here and she means business. Ouch. sad Oh well.

Leeslocket12 Mon 25-Mar-13 20:57:59

Sorry to hear that penny31 seems that a "late" AF but BFN is not something to get excited about sad I just wish none would come now so that I can focus on next month! Although this messes up all my dates!

Penny31 Mon 25-Mar-13 18:52:03

AF arrived for me too sad just a long cycle

Trinpy Mon 25-Mar-13 17:53:20

I definitely didn't ovulate late.

I can always tell whether I've ovulated or not. It's very very obvious for me. Equally, when I've had delayed ovulation before I've been aware that I didn't quite make it and my body tries to ovulate again 10-14 days later. The longest lp I've ever had was 21 days and that was my 2nd cycle off the pill, otherwise its always around 13 days.

essie81 Mon 25-Mar-13 16:12:15

Yes, suppose I could have ovulated late, not very good at keeping track of it all really, mainly because af is always so bang on time I just vagluely calculate based on that using my phone. DH was away skiing when I thought I was ovulating, but perhaps my body postponed it for his return home! Lol! Will have to wait and see. I'm never late for anything so this is really bugging me!

AF arrived for me so just a big long cycle for mehmm

Good luck everyone still waitingsmile

Leeslocket12 Mon 25-Mar-13 15:53:19

Yes I suspect for some reason I have ovulated late sad which means I am sure we will have missed the slot lol! Next month im throwing dates out the window and were just going to have sex! If AF hurries up and comes!

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn Mon 25-Mar-13 15:33:30

Is it possible that you ovulated later than normal/not at all? If your ovulation is delayed for one reason or another then your period will be correspondingly delayed, so you are not actually "late".

It is not possible to ovulate and not have a period. Once you have ovulated a chain reaction is set on place with the hormones. If you are not pregnant then your uterine lining will shed approx 14 days (though can be anything between 10 and 18 days) after ovulation.

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