Yet ANOTHER 2ww...anyone care to join me?

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DoctorWhoFan Tue 22-Jan-13 11:25:12

2 years into ttc, and here I am starting yet ANOTHER 2ww. Moral support would be lovely - I gave up on boob support years ago when they started heading south...oh the joys if being in your 40s!

Hopefully dtd enough, though targetted sex is nowhere near as fun as the other sex where there isn't a goal to be aimed for (we're both feeling the strain). And now we wait. Given that I had rampant pregnancy symptoms last month and then my period started bang on time, it's quite like that I'll misplace my marbles sometime in the next teo weeks.

ncsmummy Mon 04-Feb-13 05:17:11

No af here yet or any of the usual signs shes on her way. Have had horrible lower back ache for the last few days - never had that before. I am going to try and wait until next weekend befoire I poas again hmm
I have got my fx that we get some good news on here soon!!

RedRobin1 Sun 03-Feb-13 18:51:54

It's here now and I'm glad it's finally started. Hope the next cycle is lucky for us. Fx

ImpatientOne Sun 03-Feb-13 16:45:40

Just generally tmi but sounds exactly like mine was & I was getting very frustrated after the bfn just wanting to get it out of the way. I also had more niggling pains too - all things that get you excited because its a change but never mind into next cycle for us.

Is there any good news out there!?!

RedRobin1 Sun 03-Feb-13 15:22:13

Mines very light brown spotting for the last 3 days. TMI alert-it's very dry brown spotting not liquid or wet just pasty dry brown blood.

In a strange way I feel a little relieved after reading your AF changed too. I know I am not pregnant as POAS and got bfn as expected. Just waiting for it to show up!

ImpatientOne Sun 03-Feb-13 14:37:44

Hi Robin not AWOL but definitely changed! I had spotting and then really light AF (still spotting really but bright red) for a couple of days, then 2 normal AF days then really light days.

I did POAS after a couple of days of spotting as it was very on and off but obviously it was bfn.

I really quizzed the consultant about spotting when we saw him on Thursday but he was very unconcerned he did compliment my OCD speadsheet though

Will keep my fingers crossed grin

RedRobin1 Sun 03-Feb-13 13:37:06

My AF hasn't started yet. I had some brown spotting but it's stopped. I am on cd35 and 17/18dpo. Had a bfn yesterday so not sure what's going on.

impatient did your AF go AWOL after the hycosy?

ImpatientOne Sun 03-Feb-13 10:12:29

oops that should've been sad - they never look right on my phone.

ImpatientOne Sun 03-Feb-13 09:32:58

hmm ncs it's so hard when your body shows all those signs & you get a bfn.

ncsmummy Sun 03-Feb-13 03:40:14

Well I hunted down the tests so I could poas this morning as no sign of af and it was a bfn sad
Feeling really down now - I have been feeling so awful that I was sure I must be pg but apparently not! Doesnt help that I am not sleeping well. constan weird dreams and waking up ridiculously early. Every day this week I have got up between 3.15 and 4.30 - blah!!!

ImpatientOne Sat 02-Feb-13 07:54:50

Good luck! You've done well to get this far wink

ncsmummy Sat 02-Feb-13 05:58:11

Well todays the day that af is due to arrive. My bf says I should wait until after the weekend to see if it arrives before I poas - I dont think he realises how hard it is to resist!!! lol

ImpatientOne Fri 01-Feb-13 13:57:06

Robin sad

Hi Leen how frustrating to be late and BFN - it was a few days ago and the evening though. CB digital is not an 'early' test is it so fingers crossed your next one will show those 2 lines grin I've got 2 CB digi's which will expire soon as they have been sitting waiting for 21 cycles now!

LeenHS Fri 01-Feb-13 13:45:57

Hello
I'm ttc 9 months... AF is 5 days late. Got a negative on tues evening with cb digital. Going to buy one with lines and thinking about retesting tomorrow but dont know if I should wait longer? So nervous because I know I'll be very sad if negative. Its strange for period to be late but has happened once before. Symptoms feel like pms but cramps have subsided a bit in last few days. Would love your thoughts?

red so sorry about spotting.... Hope you're ok. It's so rubbish. Thinking about you. Annoyingly I can't access our other thread on my phone for some reason. But I'll try and get on my laptop at home.

Good luck allow you who are still in. I really hope this is your month.

RedRobin1 Fri 01-Feb-13 11:44:09

I am out too.. started spotting this morning sad
Really thought this would be our month.

ImpatientOne Thu 31-Jan-13 15:18:17

Sorry to hear that Doctor and ncs

I've been at the hospital today and seen the consultant who basically said we have 'unexplained infertility'. This is what I was expecting tbh and although it's good news that our tests didn't show anything it also means that there is no easy action plan!

I hope you can get some help with your anxiety Doctor sad it sounds like it is limiting your life a lot.

DoctorWhoFan Thu 31-Jan-13 12:41:04

Hi ladies. Pretty sure I'm out this month. No symptoms at all. Nothing. Nada. Not even my usual sore boobs...wtf? Starting to think it's too late and that it will never happen for me. Need to sign on at anew doctors and then arrange for some tests, but my anxiety is so bad at the moment that I don't leave the house on my own at all, and DP can't keep taking time off work to do those sort of things with me.

I'm feeling pathetic and pretty depressed tbh.

ncsmummy Thu 31-Jan-13 07:44:36

Well I had to do it to myself didnt i? Despite af not being due til sat night and the box saying to use the first pee of the day i just had to poas! Of courise it was a bfn! Now convinced that I must have some kind of strange illness to explain all my symptoms instead!! I dont remember bein this crazy with my eldest 2

ncsmummy Thu 31-Jan-13 07:05:49

can I join please? AF due on 2/2/13 and resisting the urge to poas!!! The last few days I have been exhausted all day but cant sleep at night due to leg cramps, vivid dreams and the worlds most painful boobs! I cant even wear a bra at the mo as they are so painful! Also been sooo hungry which is most unlike me and tearful which is strange for the woman that rarely cries!!
I am 31 and ttc #3 although this is my first with my bf.
Fingers x or you all!!!

ImpatientOne Wed 30-Jan-13 20:21:34

hi Robin and littlest

I definitely had more cramps this month Robin and started spotting 4 days before AF kicked in sad anyway seeing consultant tomorrow.

Fingers still crossed for those still in!

littlestgirlguide Wed 30-Jan-13 11:55:02

Hello all, can I join you for some moral support?
I thought my cycles had sort of settled down - last few have been 27/28 days (and bot had one longer since bfote my yers of depo/implant/the pill), with obvious signs of ovulation exactly when you would expect them. This month, AF due yesterday and nothing, so now on cycle day 29 an counting...

RedRobin1 Wed 30-Jan-13 09:04:08

<decides to de-lurk and finally post>

gutted about your bfn impatient I remember you from our hycosy thread.

Can I join? On cycle 9 of ttc, had checks done and like you happily we haven't had anything worrying come up except DH's low morphology and a low level of antisperm antibodies. Af is due on 1st / 2nd Feb, but I start spotting before hand so will know by Friday hopefully.

TTC is just pants. I had a hycosy done this month. I had all the symptoms of implantation - painful period like cramps and tugging between 7-9dpo. I don't really symptoms spot as several 'imaginary' symptoms have taught me to not listen to my body. But this month I really thought we were going to get our BFP - cramps felt very different and stronger. Anyhow post 10dpo I have felt nothing, not even sore boobs which I get every month. So just waiting for AF to arrive.

SweepTheHalls Wed 30-Jan-13 07:18:39

yes so its a no go this time. at least my best chance for next cycle is in half term so we might have a bit more energy!

Happilymarried155 Wed 30-Jan-13 07:13:21

I too am not going to cave in on the testing until at least the 7th smile

Happilymarried155 Wed 30-Jan-13 07:12:17

Hi,
Can I join? I'm another one with AF/bfp due on the 5th. Been ttc for two years now sad it's bloody hard!
Had all the tests and apart from a slightly low morphology the doctors say there is no reason why we shouldn't be able to concieve-which in a way makes it all the more annoying! We have an appointment to start iui in April but I've convinced myself that we will be pregnant by then! Heading for heartbreak I know but we can only hope!!!

Mrsblackcar Tue 29-Jan-13 21:31:43

Hi there AF/BFP due on 2/2/13 did try one this morning but neg so will now wait patiently for the right day maybe shock

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