This is my first post so please excuse me if it is in the incorrect section or format.
I am hoping to find some help or even some one with experience of IVF Surrogacy for single men. I have recently started my research but currently the only people I have spoken to are those involved with the process itself and so far I have only been able to respond to the information in a logical sense. I don't have any sense of the impact on the individuals (a Child without a Mother, the Surrogate herself)
I don't know how much or little information is relevant or needed for a response? I am in my late thirties and have had a number of long term relationships over the past twenty years. The most recent ended 18 months ago when my partner decided that children were no longer part of her "plan".
I have always wanted children and am a Godfather to three delightful children but I would like a child of my own. I am in a situation of finacial security and my job would allow me to focus on raising a child. I have only spoken to my Sister about it and she has been incredibly supportive. I have spoken to neither of my Parents yet and feel they wouldn't understand (or consider it unnatural) although I am friends with my exs I haven't spoken about it with them or any of my female friends. The idea of raising a child without a "Mother" makes me uncomfortable and yet I feel any child I had wouldn't want for love or care.
I would prefer constructive feedback if possible or directions to a forum more appropriate to my question. Thank you in advance,
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