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I'm cd 19 been testing but no ovulation but I knew that anyway. My app with the specialist is on Monday in looking forward to it but I'm not expecting it to work if I do get clomid, but I need to stop being negative about everything but its so bloody hard.

I know, its so difficult isn't it? Hang in there though. How long have you been trying? x

Keep testing lovely am so happy u got your appointment Monday please let us no what is happening Hun and u r so right it's so hard to be positive when we keep getting all negative but we must keep each other going hunny and keep r dream alive it will happen big hugs x

Meluv, I'm so sorry, sweetheart. Now they've got you ovulating it's simply a matter of time. Keep your chin up, love, you'll get your baby xx

Annalou, try to be positive about Monday - you're moving forward.

Mr. Viv ejaculated again tonight (I ovulate today or tonight sometime)

Thanx for your kind words V they mean a lot am happy your DP managed to do his part I have all crossed for you lovely .... What would any of use do in my dilemma concerning my sisters wedding or carry in trying for my dream I realy want to be there for her but am so scared if I take a 5 month brake my cyst could well return in that time & then my chances would be handed again when they have to take my ovary an tube grrrrr what a choice I av to make xxxx

Meluv, this is your dream - to have this baby - and it is your responsibility to keep trying and to avoid that cyst returning. Your sister's dream (her wedding, her happiness) is her responsibility. Don't put your dreams on hold for anyone x

Thank V I am just going to keep going ahead with my treatment Hun my dream is more important am not going to say boat to anyone just keeping it between me an my dp now fingers crossed my dream will come true ps I done another test first thing this morn an got bfn wanted to be sure thank for being hear xxxx

Sorry to hear about you bfn meluv

Does anyone know if you can have a positive opk and still not ovulate? I havnt ovulated in over year n half n never had a positive opk. Yesterday I got my first positive opk at cd 16. I dnt want to get my hopes up that I am acctually ovulating if I'm not

Sarah really not sure the only thing I've read is I think if you have pcos this can mess with the reading you get I hope u r ovulating luv x

Thanks meluv, iv got my blood test on Friday so will find out soon hope I am too then at least ill know that the clomid is working

Hello ladies

Sorry its been so long & i didn't reply to you. read only few posts don't know where to start.

viv - Thank you for your message ages ago great advice. Glad you got a new job, how you getting on at new job hun? Great news your dp ejaculated yesterday at the time of your ovulation.Great news regarding your dr visit glad you got the answers you wanted. Fingers crossed for you hun.

Meluv - Sorry you got bfn again its so hard hun. Big Hugs it will happen just don't know when. Keep on with your dream hun.

Rosie - Congratulations & best wishes hun hope its going great.

mumalah, npg, christelle & littlefilly hope you are all ok.

well dec could not ttc as dh was working away when i was ovulating but as sad as it was i decided to have a crazy month as there was no chance so ditched the healthy eating & drunk loads & had loads of fun blocking out ttc i had hang over most of the time all was good till i got af over a week ago as now i'm on the crazy ttc so back to boring foods, no drink, planned sex,vitamins, temps, opk etc... yawn. I really did need that month off ttc & letting my hair down having a drink. I did overdose on it & happy not to drink for a long time now it just helped me get though xmas & block out ttc.
I am cd 12 about to ovulate today or tomorrow just need some sperm as dh is being tight with his (not well man flu) wimp & selfish i say & i don't want to miss this month it was hard enough missing out last month & also a waste of my time doing all the healthy ttc stuff this month, i better get some today or dh will have to sleep with one eye open no i will just jump on him I do it when i'm not well so i won't let him get away with

Take care & good luck ladies

Meluv - has your sister asked you to have a 5 month break? I 100% wouldn't stop, keep trying hon x

Meluv - has your sister asked you to have a 5 month break? I 100% wouldn't stop, keep trying hon x

Sarah, Meluv is correct in that PCOS can give false positives on OPKs. However, if you haven't had a positive in that long and now you've got one I would suggest Clomid is indeed working for you. If your positive opk was yesterday you can expect to ovulate today or tomorrow at the latest. This means, of course, that your blood test on Friday is pointless. You need to arrange a test for next Tuesday or Wednesday at the latest.

Hello, Hopefully, I'll be honest with you: your fella needs to pull his finger out. Man flu should not be preventing him from helping you achieve your dream. I have no time for these blokes who treat this journey as if we have all the time in the world

My DP, bless him, managed to ejaculate yet again tonight - that's three nights in a row - and I'm so proud of him for overcoming such a traumatic few days with his issues

Morning lovely ladies soph my sister has not ask me to stop no luv it's just I felt I had to so I cud be there for her special day we r so very very close she like my mum to me since we lost our queen (mum) 10 years ago its so so hard but I am going to continue with my dream ..... Cd 34 for me today an still no af I still have tenderness round my nipple area but two test said bfn wish af wus just start so I can get back on my tabs xxx

Meluv, that is a very long luteal phase if you ov'd on CD14 like the nurse said. 20 days??! I don't think so.

...in fact, I would go to the GP for a blood test to check for pregnancy. Your period should deffo be here by now.

Thanks viv I didn't realise that it had to be about 7dpo. Iv just spoken to my consultant and they want me to have a blood test on both Friday and Tuesday now

V u r so right what your saying luv but my cd 21 bloods defo showed I ovulated because of the results my cd 28 bloods were canceled I still have no af shown up but two preg test gave me a bfn .... Question does it matter that the test were only cheap ones ?

Just rang clinic an spoke to my nurse told her about what has gone on two negative tests ov on cd 14 but still no af she said we wus expect you to get your af about 14 days after but we r all different an if I do t get af by Monday next week to test again grrrrrr this journey

Meluv, I know what you are saying. 34 days and no AF is a long time if you ov'd on CD14 though.

Meluv, I'm SURE your sister won't care, she'll just be thrilled that your getting your dream! Hopefully your dream is as far away as you think......

Well girls af has finally arrived hear to another' month of ttc ... V these r for you xxx

Aaaaaw, Meluv! Thanks for the beautiful flowers, I'm so sorry about AF. On the bright side - you ovulated, which is a huge achievement and means it's only a matter of time before the right sperm meets the right egg xxx

Aw thanks V am just happy am responding to clomid an like you said I hope it's only a matter of time luv xxx what cd r u now V ... Waves to everyone else xxx