Trying not to stress

(131 Posts)
Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 00:05:28

Month 6 of ttc, have a regular 27/28 cycle both with coil and since it has been removed. On day 28 and no af and no signs what so ever no cramp pmt etc! However poas this morning and again in desperation about and hour ago and both bfn!
Both previous pregs (one mc) conceived whilst by surprise whilst still on contraception so I thought actually trying would mean it was a piece of cake (sad)
Please help me stay sane whilst I wait for af and not spend £££ on bloody tests ( no more in the house).

Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 09:44:26

Bump still no sign of af this morning sad

jennimoo Tue 23-Oct-12 09:58:22

I'm a poas-a-holic I'm afraid but feel your pain! I buy in bulk the dippy sticks so only out of my mind, not out of pocket.

Got pg 1st cycle with DC1. Waiting for AF on 4th cycle now.

Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 10:57:42

Thanks Jen, I'm really trying to stop my self popping out again to get one. Have taken your advice and ordered some eBay cheapies which will take a few days to come so trying to resist the urge till then smile
However I'm now late so surely should show on most tests by now. I can't even symptom spot as with ds I didn't know I was preg till 17 weeks blush (due to not having had a period for a while anyway) so I'm guessing I don't get many symptoms early doors as I didn't have a clue!

jennimoo Tue 23-Oct-12 18:48:57

I would have loved no symptoms til 17 weeks, felt really sick! Fx you'll get a BFP when the sticks arrive, then no symptoms!

Knakard Wed 24-Oct-12 18:57:17

Argh! Still no af but still bfn angry

Clca Wed 24-Oct-12 20:12:25

I am in exactly the same situation at the moment. 5 days late and testing negative.

NEED TO KNOW NOW!!!! blush

Knakard Wed 24-Oct-12 20:25:46

I know, I either need commiseration wine or celebration chocolate! smile

Clca Wed 24-Oct-12 20:29:41

I literally cannot concentrate on anything else.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you too x

jennimoo Wed 24-Oct-12 20:58:28

I've got a pack of clear blue digitalis in my asda delivery tomorrow. I'm not late yet but if still BFN in cheapies tomorrow will go digital Friday I think...

The waiting and obsessing is rubbish sad

jennimoo Wed 24-Oct-12 20:59:03

Digitals even, I'm not that distraught!

Clca Wed 24-Oct-12 21:14:37

Haha roll on the asda delivery.

I too will be hopefully retesting on Friday.... Counting down the minutes starting from now! blush

Knakard Wed 24-Oct-12 22:34:02

I caved and did another eBay cheapy tonight and still bugger all!
Have told my self will wait till Friday now too and if nothing my Monday will make gp. App.
Fingers crossed for you both x

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 07:35:48

Hahaha so easy to crack I have spent a sodding fortune so far!!

Still no sign of AF for me today.... Shall be peeing tomorrow morning! X

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 08:48:07

BFN again this morning. Due anytime between now and Sunday I think.

Feeling really fed up and annoyed this morning sad

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 11:50:06

Me too, got another bfn again this morning but I'm now 3 days later than my longest cycle.
Think I'm going for go and get a first response one tomorrow if still nothing.

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 12:31:10

Did you notice any ovulation signs, or are you not obsessing like I am and charting temps etc... sad

Just wondered if that would give you a clue as to whether you were really late or if you ovulated later.

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 12:32:04

Would it be really bad if I tested tonight instead of tomorrow morning??

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 12:47:29

I'm not charting and temping but def ov pains and mucus around day 14 so would expect my usual cycle.
Did a digital on day 28 which said not preg and have just done Internet cheapies since.
I couldn't wait ccla if I had one here I'd be peeing all over it blush

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 12:47:50

"clca" sorry

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Thu 25-Oct-12 12:51:42

Op do a digi tomorrow with fmp good luck!

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 13:31:56

Although I'm addicted to the poas ing I do only use FMU, as drink loads during the day. However, with DD got faint line with fMU on a cheapie and then that evening did a cb digital and got a 'pregnant' !

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 13:43:53

Oh well commiseration wine it is then sad af arrived thissfternoon

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 17:30:45

Ah Knakard Im sorry. Wishing you every luck for next month. Enjoy a big glass/ bottle of vino tonight.

I'm not keeping my hopes up- have no symptoms to speak of. Another neg test and I may go insane!! X

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 17:49:20

On that note I have just re tested (I know I have nooo will power) and it is a big fat not pregnant (cb digital).

So frustrated angry

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