Bfn

(3 Posts)
LoveYouForeverMyBaby Wed 03-Oct-12 22:04:25

Oky technically not ttc until jan, but we've not been using condoms every time because if it happened earlier than Jan I wouldn't be a problem. Poas and got a bfn today...feel a bit disappointed sad was kinda hoping it would be a bfp.

FrankelSaysRelax Wed 03-Oct-12 22:09:06

Sorry for the disappointing result.

In reality it take a perfectly healthy couple up to a year to conceive. Unfortunately we tend to get bombarded, rightly, with the safe sex message as teens/young adults so much that it makes us think we will instantly get pregnant as soon as we stop using protection.

Try to chill out a bit (meant in the least patronising way possible) and have lots and lots of sex. It will happen.

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Wed 03-Oct-12 22:10:40

Thank you....we got pg first try with dc1 so I think that has given me unrealistic expectations for conceiving number 2.

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