For those of you who have faced BFNs month after month after month and have been TTC for what seems like forever, how do you cope?? Having got ALL the symptoms of pg last week and certain I was pg (sore & huge boobs, dizzy, tired, more frequent peeing, cramps & even vomiting Sat & Sunday!)....I got a BFN yesterday and spotting started today. I'm extremely lucky to have one DD already....but had a L-O-N-G and difficult time waiting for her....so now that I've decided to TTC no. 2, I'm bracing myself for another long and frustrating and difficult journey....I promised myself this time there would be no symptom-spotting etc and I would just take things as they come, so couldn't believe how upset I was yesterday at the BFN....I think it was the vomiting twice at the weekend that got my hopes up. Why? Why? Why? Grrrrr....
So.... just wondering how everyone else who is having to be very patient in TTC manages the disappointment every month?? Chocolate? (I had some this morning to try cheer me up, but really shouldn't 'cos my skin is so bad) Big mad spending-spree? (can't really afford this at the mo) Nice long soak in the bath? (I do this already anyway....) Any other ideas to act a a kind of consolation??
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iwilldothis · 11/01/2011 14:54
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