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Um, Mumsnet Towers, not sure if I'm in the right place, but I've just tried to enter the win a weekend break in Kent competion, but can't enter my details. I'm using the mobile site (I think, I linked in through the email you sent out). I can see and answer the question, enter my email address and username, but then there is no «click to enter» button. Please help!