...quite low self esteem.
dd1 - just 7, is a really pretty girl. she is olive skinned and gorgeous. she is a sporty, sturdy build, is strong and muscular and average height. she is quite heavy, but not flabby. she is, however, sturdier than the average child in her class and possibly very, very slightly overweight.
however, dd makes comments about the size of her legs (you know how some people are just not born to have stick legs...)and seems to have a poor body image already
i always tell her she is muscly and strong and 'just right', and that people come in all shapes and sizes.
the difficulty is, though, that in addition to trying to boost her self esteem re her size, i am also trying to educate her about the need for a balanced diet and sensible portion sizes. this is something that we have chatted about only recently, as she oftens asks for second helpings and complains that dh and i have bigger helpings than her! left to her own devices, she would eat virtually no fruit or veg and just over do the carbs, so i do need to explain to her about healthy eating.
we are a very healthy household. we rarely have crisps, cake etc in the house and eat a mainly vegetarian /wholefood diet, but we do have treats when out and sweets once a week.
the purpose of this thread is to ask if you think that all this talk about healthy eating (it comes up everyday, at least twice, due to her always wanting more...)might actually contribute to the problem of overeating. i want to balance educating her with the need to proceed cautiously with a child who may well have a disposition towards having food issues in later life.
how do i deal with her continual requests for second helpings, ice creams etc etc without making her feel that she's greedy/ bad about herself?
any advice?
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noonar · 15/04/2009 20:45
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