I am new to posting here, I don't really know why I'm posting this other than to try and get some other's perspectives / opinions or support.
I have 2 children, DS is 6 nearly 7. The past month maybe 1-4 times a week he has been complaining of a "sore heart" or "thumping then stopping" feeling, which I think is palpitations.
For about a week now he's been saying he is tired quite a lot, which is unusual for him and he has been eating and sleeping well.
I am terrified he could have a heart problem - have been looking things up and now I'm sick with worry about him.
His dad's cousin collapsed suddenly playing football around 30 y.o and was diagnosed with a heart problem (can't find out what as DS dad refusing to talk about it at all), my sister lost a baby at 18 weeks to down's syndrome with heart problem, and my mum was on tablets for years after being diagnosed with a heart murmur when pregnant with me, although was eventually told she didn't need to take them anymore (she is dead 16 years so can't ask).
Googling has terrified me, the family history seems suspicious and the facts about these kind of conditions make for grim reading. I have barely ate or slept in days. I took DS to the GP 2 weeks ago re the palpitations, but he just shrugged "boys his age don't get heart problems" and sent us on our way. He is more tired than usual so I'm worrying even more now. He is due to go for minor surgery under a general for something different (hydrocele) and his dad has made another GP appointment for tues to ask for tests to be done, but is refusing to say any more, keeps hanging up the phone and saying I'm crazy, we both get palpitations ourselves (true) etc.
Should I get a loan and pay for private testing...I'm so worried it's unreal. If DS dad doesn't get anywhere with the GP on Tuesday, I'm going to take him myself and insist on the checks urgently, or pay for testing asap.
I know that it's going to be a wait and there is nothing I can do about that, but I really can't function unless I find out he is ok.
If anyone has any suggestion on how to proceed or medical knowledge or even just can give support I'd be very grateful.
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DS age 6, symptoms. Absolutely terrified in case it's his heart.
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worried872 · 07/08/2016 10:40
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