Hi,
I wondered if I might ask advice on helping a young child to get over PTSD type stuff from having too much medical intervention in the early years.
My ds (now aged 6) had a huge number of visits to GPs and health visitors and specialist in his baby and toddler years because of ENT trouble, and every single one of the medics insisted on making him gag so they could see his tonsils even though I'd explained that the tonsils were fine. It was his adenoids that were the trouble and those were eventually removed twice.
In the middle of this his nose was always too blocked with mucous to let him sleep, so that we had to put drops of water in his nose at night to help him breathe clearly enough to sleep.
All of this, and the various immunisations and other baby medical things involved holding him tight while things were done to him against his will. He is now 6 years old and after having had far too much medical intervention in his early years, he routinely screams and kicks at the suggestion of any kind of minor medical intervention.
Because he won't accept medical help now, this means he has currently got waxy ears that we can't fix, a thorn stuck in his foot that we can't get out, eczema on his face that we can't treat except when he is asleep, and hole in his tooth that the dentist says he definitely would not yet try to fill. He hasn't got a sibling, because life has never been calm enough since he was born to produce one, so he doesn't even see another child dealing with this kind of situation, and has little opportunity for fun to liven things up when life is going well.
We have been referred to a pediatrician because he is still getting a lot of viruses and missing a lot of school, but I dread going to see the person and having ds kick up even more fuss and get even more entrenched views about the medical profession, especially if they try to take a blood sample, which I know will not work.
I wondered if anyone might know some techniques that I could use to help ds get over all this? And failing that, might anyone know what form of words I need to use when talking to medical people to explain that ds has absolutely and totally hit his limit, and that just pushing their luck one more time is not going to be okay.
Thanks!
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Young child routinely refusing medical intervention PTSD
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ipsogenix · 15/05/2016 20:48
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