4yo DD2 had hers out 3 weeks ago today so it's all pretty fresh. They were removed due to sleep apnoea. We arrived at the hospital by 7.30 and after having numbing cream on both hands and arms (just in case), DD had a cannula inserted - she barely flinched as the nurses did a great job of distracting her whilst the anesthatist (sp - sorry!) put it in. She was asleep almost instantly and I had a bit of a cry as they wheeled her off.
The op took about an hour and when I was called into recovery DD was incredibly distressed and that was difficult to watch. I was allowed on the bed with her to comfort her but she was in a lot of pain. After some pretty hefty painkillers she calmed down and slept on and off for a while. She was encouraged to eat and drink pretty quickly and managed some Pom Bears and a biscuit. Painkillers were administered at regular intervals. We had to stay overnight and once DD had eaten some breakfast, we were allowed home. My biggest worry was that she would get a post-op bleed but she's been fine. Whilst we were in hospital, a little boy had been re-admitted after the same op a few days earlier as he'd had a bleed and infection as he'd not been eating and drinking enough of the right sort of foods so I was particularly conscious of making sure that DD was eating 'hard' foods as well as softer stuff. Her appetite was pretty poor initially and she did lose weight (she's only 13kg so couldn't really afford to lose much) but I was happy for her to eat whatever whenever so if she wanted Hoola Hoops for breakfast, so be it. Breadsticks were also a success.
Unfortunately after leaving hospital, beyond our first day/night home, DD decided that she would not take any painkillers and believe me I tried everything to get her to take some - hidden in yogurt, ice-cream, jelly, lemonade, bribery, syringe, nothing worked so I stopped trying as we were all getting distressed and I was worried that all the crying and screaming (her and me!) would strain her throat/start a bleed. If she complained of pain, I explained that I had something to help and asked if she wanted some, but she was having none of it She did wake up distressed at around 11pm on a couple of nights but settled back to sleep with no problem when I brought her into bed with me. She complained of pain in her ears a couple of times too which I had read about previously. The white plaque covering the site of the removal started to fall off by days 5 or 6 and was completely gone a few days later. Towards the end of week 2, her appetite was much better and she was drinking plenty and not complaining of any pain. DD needed to stay away from school/crowds for 2 weeks.
In terms of food - the advice now is to eat as normally as possible as soon as possible especially hard, scratchy foods. Stock up on painkillers (hopefully your DS will be more amenable than mine - DD has never refused medicine before and had been happily taking medicine off a spoon from before a year old). Tip-tops/ice-pops were popular and ice-cubes in drinks as well as those little pots of jelly with fruit in (to encourage chewing). We are due a 6 week check up at the end of the month. In terms of the sleep apnoea and snoring, it's been like flicking a switch. I now don't realise she's fallen asleep next to me as she's so quiet - before, if we were sharing a bed, I'd have to wear ear-plugs! I hope you get a date soon - ours was classified as urgent but did end up being postponed by 3 weeks initially. It's understandable to be worried - I had a wobble when the surgeon informed us on the day of the op that he wouldn't proceed unless there was a HDU bed available 'just in case' but he explained why and I was happy to proceed. Sorry for the huge essay .