My lovely friend is at her wits end with her 13 year old son and his eating habits.
He is fairly overweight and doesn't do much exercise. He has told me and his mum separately that he gets called fat at school and hates it. However he has no motivation to change his eating habits.
Therefore his mum feels there isn't a lot she can do. We have a great relationship and can be very honest with each other. I gently tried to say she's never allowed them to decide they have had enough to eat, so always hassled them with 'just one more mouthful' even though they said they've had enough.
She is also overweight (as am I) and admits she thinks she passed her eating issues onto him.
He constantly thinks about food, wolfs everything down and goes into an almost trance like state when eating. I went away for a weekend with them and I can honestly say they grazed all day. When they had a lull of less than an hour, he hassled for snacks etc until she gave him something.
In restaurants he wants to order the big item he can find and only last week she let him eat a sharing platter on his own!
To be fair to her she normally provides good meals and he will eat anything including veggies etc.
She's admitted he 'sneaks' food and she'll go to get something and it will be gone. He ate a whole jar of Nutella recently and put empty jar back. So the problem seems to be sneaking food and buying rubbish at school.
I feel she needs to get tough with him and stop buying the crap he's sneaking, but it's not me that has to deal with it all.
So should she have more control or is she fighting a losing battle?
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How much control should a parent have with a 13 year olds eating habits/weight?
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nowttodowithme · 28/07/2015 20:35
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