My ds is just recovering from some horrible "walking" flu type virus that has hit him 3 weeks into 6th form. (His dear father had also taken him to a huge football match 3 days earlier) He is mildly asthmatic when has a cold, had pneumonia New Year 2012 and so does get stuff. However, he is convinced when he is ill, that he is "always ill" and starts talking about how he is going to die soon, or that his death would be a release.
I am a part-time teacher, but am very much around at home, supported him through GCSE anxiety attacks and whenever he wants a study buddy. He has plenty of friends, will go to play sport/the gym/local and London concerts. All his buddies and him went to Spain after GCSEs. Obviously any illness could be serious, but everytime he has a cough he is on about cancer and AIDS. I try to be upbeat, point out how many viruses he probably fights off, but these days of depression ("I'm ill, I'm ill") grind me down, especially as my own father died not that long ago (he had zilch relationship with my children as my stepmother hated children). I need to get out of this wolf wolf pattern!
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Teen dramatic/morbid whenever ill
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Seoulsister · 29/09/2013 19:16
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