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Reflux - all meds stopped working! Can anyone help?(45 Posts)
I just joined Mumsnet today and I'm desperately hoping someone can offer advice.
I had b/g twins who are 9 weeks old. They were born at 33 weeks. My baby girl is suffering with severe reflux and has been for a few weekrg now. She has a history of dusky episodes but has also recently started bringin all her feeds up. After a hospital stay and several dusky episodes she was put on Domperidone and lansoprezole (sorry for spelling). She showed improvement and was discharged but then started with breathing problems again, going dusky and throwing up all her feeds - basically worse than before. She is now also on ranitadene as well as the above. It's doing nothing for her. We tried different milk in case it's dairy related but still no improvement.
Basically, I'm desperate! She's already tiny and needs to gain weight and won't if she continues. Life is pretty difficult as she's still in hospital and separated from her twin. She is likely to be discharged soon, despite all this, because she managed to put on 1oz. This is in spite of the fact feeds are traumatic to say the least and we are allso miserable because she is.
The docs don't kno why the meds aren't controlling it but want to keep her on them anyway. They are only concerned if she loses weight and not the misery and distress that comes with it, not to mention the fear that comes with feeding her in case she goes blue.
Does anyone have any advice? Anything else we could try?
I'm really hoping there's something out there which will work!
I would make a massive fuss to be honest. You sound great - well informed, looking at other options, open minded. I think you are entitled to demand a meeting with a more senior doctor and some proper answers.
I would also request a transfer if the distances are feasible (and I know how hard it is having twins at different places). Is there any chance your DH/DP could go with her to Sheffield? DH stayed with DS for nearly a week when he was transferred and I was still in the birth hospital. It was hard, but worth it in the long run.
Also, if you have a really good expert consultant on her case then it will probably help once she is discharged and you're feeding at home - having someone we could phone up and talk things through made a huge difference to us.
As far as I know - and I could be wrong here - some babies DO come home on sat monitors. But more importantly, babies don't come home when they're still de-satting! That's the whole point of monitoring them, doing the car-seat challenge etc. I would certainly raise that as a major concern.
Thinking of you guys lots and hoping your DD gets some comfort soon.
One other idea - have you tried talking to Bliss? They may be able to help you work out what's best to do when you're not happy with the SCBU care.
Well I've told the doctor all my concerns this morning and also complained about the lack of communication and the fact the nurses just aren't taking DD's condition seriously and they don't take what I say on board as they clearly think I'm just 'going on'.
DD's consultant is now away three weeks so the duty doc is standing in. He clearly thinks the fact I've asked him to speak to Mike Thomson in Sheffield is too much hard work as he pointed out she wasn't his patient. She is for now though! This is his chance and if he doesnt call a complaint will be going in. I think she'd be better off in Sheffield but at least opening a dialogue would be a start.
Hi Lou, just wanted to give my sympathy. I have an ex-29-weeker who has just outgrown severe reflux age 3.5.
I found our local neonatal unit (a regional centre) hopeless at diagnosing & managing reflux. I had to push very hard for a referral to a paediatric consultant gastroenterologist, who took it seriously & tried various combinations. Omeprazole worked best, Domperidone was hopeless.
A baby who is desaturating after feeds should not be sent home. I would refuse to take a baby home under these circumstances. A saturation monitor will not help with desaturating, it will only confirm it. A home saturation monitor is extremely stressful.
I hope you can get something sorted.
Wrote long reply and lost it grrr!
So I told the doc on ward round how I feel about the way things are being handled and he listened. Not sure what/ if things will change. He reluctantly agreed to speak to Mike Thomson at Sheffield.
I have her back on the sats monitor even though the day nurses today again didn't want it on. They can be so condescending with telling me it makes parents worry unnecessarily. The fact she went purple yesterday means it is necessary.
Thanks for all your support. I'm going to look into different milks and ask about Neocate.
OK it did post after all. Now I've posted twice and cant work out how to delete one! I blame sleep deprivation!
My god - incorrect information being put in hospital notes and that compounded/repeated at handover is totally unacceptable, and as for the nurse deliberately not putting the sats monitor on after the doctor requested it is inexcusable and to me, indicates a problem with authority/communications in the ward - please put in a complaint, in writing. Ask to see the senior consultant for the unit to explain why you will be doing this.
A transfer to a more specialist hospital can only be a good thing.
I am sorry that everything is so hard atm.
You are doing an amazing job, and your DD is a lucky girl to have such a tenacious mummy. Big hug to you, it really won't be like this forever x
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I would transfer, know people who have been very happy with Sheffield for their seriously ill children! I would note all the inaccuracies and inform the current hospital that you have made detailed notes and when your child is better you will be making a formal complaint.
For th e reflux I bf and used enfamil AR then discovered he was Allergic to CMP so excluded dairy and soya in my diet and used nutramigem AA. The neonate is higher calorie so may be a better option. I hope you get that transfer tonight and excellent treatment!
I just wanted to update in case anyone is interested.
DD is now just NG tube feeding and has been a few days as she was literally bringing everything back up. She's tolerating the NG tube a bit better than the bottle which confuses me as the milk's going to the same place?!
She now has a bad cough and cold which isn't helping and the doctors thought it best to rest her from the bottle.
She had the barium swallow test today which showed reflux and that, as I already knew, the milk comes right back up as soon as she stops drinking. It happens v fast. It only came half way up during the test but the second she left the X ray dept she was sick in the corridor. She was sick again when she had a little milk by bottle a little later. So back to NG...all v frustrating and upsetting to see the tube in her little nose.
Incidentally, she then kept all her NG feeds down all day but when the nurse added some new Dalavit vitamins to the milk, she threw it all up. We had previously taken heroff Abidec vits for throwing them up. I think she just can't tolerate some things?
We haven't moved hospital as yet as we thought she needed to get over her nasty virus first and reevaluate. Mike Thomson at Sheffield recommended she try Neocate milk which we will try when she puts on a bit more weight. The dietician said it isn't high calorie and she needs the calories in Infatrini Peptisorb for now. I've reluctantly agreed but want to know if this change is the answer!
Finally, does anyone out there use the liquid omeprosol? The doctor at her current hospital told us it didn' exist, but I am now told that Mike Thomson prescribes it. I asked the hospital pharmacist directly, just to double check, who said it was a Trust decision not to use it as it's not as effective, it does not come from a trusted source, it still has bits in it (the reason we want it is that the bits clog the syringe and she doesn't get it all) and that it's expensive. I feel quite angry the doctor lied saying it didn't exist.
Is it true that the liquid version is not as effective as the solutabs? If it's just as effective then it's something else I'm going to have to fight for.
It's been such a tough week seeing her struggle with her virus and be so distressed with the sickness. Add to that the lack of faith in the doctor and lack of sympathy from nurses (and at times a little hostility from nurses as we complained about one nurse).
Thanks in advance.
Sorry, I just also want to say thankyou for all your support. It made me cry reading your posts.
I forgot to say that we did complain to the ward manager but I'm not sure it has helped. Some of the nurses have been a little hostile since. Some overly nice!
Re Neocate, the dietician insisted it was not high calorie so I don't know? If it is then surely she should be on it?
Hi, sorry your dd still so ill. It sounds like some decisions are possibly finance based and I know neonate is also expensive. Perhaps a second opinion from Sheffield can give you a different perspective and when you are home you have the right to go to Sheffield for out patient appointments if that helps. We were offered nutramigem AA ( more expensive that nutramigem lipid 2) and will go not neonate when ds is 18mths. Sorry do not know about other drugs. We have recently had a second opinion outpatient at another hospital who told us our ds is low on calciu,, needs supplements etc etc, was insightful!!
All the best.
Oh Lou it sounds like such a very tough situation. Sending you and your DD love and strength.
From your posts I'm hearing 2 things... that you've really lost confidence in the current hospital (and who can blame you - after all it's where a nurse has disobeyed a doctors order and then another doctor has given you incorrect prescribing information) and that the treatments offered so far are not suiting DD.
So it really sounds like its time to move her.
In your shoes I would be pushing very hard for a transfer. The squeaky wheel gets oiled first so be firm in your requests, and look the doctors square in the eyes when you speak with them.
If it helps, know that all us mumsnetters are right behind you.
I am thinking of you and your darling DD. X
Hi Lou175, my DS was on omeprazole from 7 months old. He was ng tube fed and I asked about getting a liquid form of it as it quite often blocked the tube. I was told there wasn't one at that time (2007).
He's still on omeprazole and I think they changed the formula a couple of years ago to make them a bit more soluble - they are called omeprazole MUPS. We still give it via his gastrostomy. It doesn't dissolve, it's more a very fine suspension, but with the right shake-as-you-give technique , we almost always give the whole lot.
He was also on Neocate for nearly a year. It is the same calorie as normal formula so not high cal, but if it is the formula that works for your DD, then calorie boosters (such as duocal) could be added to it. Maybe not at 9 weeks but it is probably worth asking.
Neocate is v expensive so doctors can shy away from it but I remember reading a paper about elemental milks helping reflux cases, even when there isn't necessarily a milk protein allergy.
So sorry for all you're having to deal with. Hope your DD is on an even keel very soon.
Sorry to hear you and your little one are having such a tough time. Omeprazole definitely comes in a liquid form - it's a special preparation that pharmacy have to make up or get from a nearby hospital that has a pharmacy that makes it. I think its pricey and a bit of a faff which is why they sometimes say unavailable! Not fair if right for your little one. The other option as another poster says is the omeprazole mups - if they are mixed with sodium bicarbonate then they dissolve even better. Fingers crossed this helps your daughter.
DD is on the solutabs, so is this different to the mups?
The dietician said we could go on Neocate but just not yet, so hopefully that won't be a problem. I just need to know how much weight she needs to gain first.
It's a new doctor on duty from tomorrow so will lay our cards on the table.
BTW she's not on SCBU any more. She's on childrens ward.
Sorry, I now seem to remember the doctor saying he had spoken to the manufacturer about getting it in liquid form and they said the only way was to mix it with sodium bicarbonate but it would not be as effective andwould taste nasty.
Does anyone know if the liquids are less effective?
You poor thing!
DS is currently on omeprazole in liquid form, which is making very little difference... Our pharmacist did say that it can be less effective as it is already slightly broken down by the time it reaches the stomach - this means it can be less potent, and also that you need to get it in small amounts, meaning quite a lot of faff and also a lot of prescription costs
We are still struggling a lot at 10 weeks, though your challenges really put it in perspective, really hope all is okay. It's definitely worth pushing as early as possible, our little guy has just got worse and worse, with increasing apnoeas and what was initially silent reflux now becoming very spewy.
For formula - our Paed had him on a 2 week trial of Elecare (the fully hydrolysed one), while I pumped to keep supply up. For us it made no difference except exacerbating my sleep deprivation and taking away the one thing (bfing) that calmed him, but I know some people who rave about it.
Hope things improve soon.
Hi Sunnysummer - it sounds like your LO's reflux developed like my DD's in that it started silent and developed into vomiting. I know DD has both now as the NG feeds she does keep down, she spends the whole time gulping it back. What has your doc said about the apnoeas? Does he go blue?
I will certainly be running all these milks by the dietician.
Well we spoke to the weekend doctor earlier who told us what we already knew - the barium swallow test showed the reflux to be very rapid and severe. I knew already that whatever hits her stomach comes right back up within seconds. She said DD is already on max doses so if it doesn't improve when she gets over this virus the next step is surgery. Obviously this just panics me as I want her better but not to go through surgery. Clearly they are taking this seriously now though.
I just keep thinking things have to go our way soon! I hope the milk is the answer.
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