First of all - I genuinely love MIL. She's great with DD and we are so lucky that she takes care of her two afternoons a week.
Anyway, DD is almost three. DH has recently been diagnosed with T2 diabetes despite being a healthy weight (it's very prevalent in his family). The doctor has said DD is going to be prone to developing it at some point.
DD is very active and eats a very healthy diet (loves fruit and veg, is very rarely given sweets or juice). She has only put 1lb on since 2 year check but has barely grown height wise so, despite remaining on the same weight centile, she has dropped height-wise and is classed as 'overweight'. She's definitely due a growth spurt and this will be resolved (had same size feet since June) so I'm not overly concerned, but I'd like to address this now. We can't really change her diet at home as it's great (have checked portion sizes but that's fine) and we make sure she gets at least one hour of exercise every day, usually more.
The problem is with MIL. At home, we give DD her meal and then if she wants anything else she can have veg sticks or fruit. We ate at MIL's today and after lunch DD asked for ''ginger cake, ice-cream and toffee sauce". MIL said "shush DD, you are giving away our secrets!"
It turns out that DD gets a big pudding after every meal at MIL's. it also transpired that she'd had three biscuits before I arrived (had been doing errands in town).
Anyway, sorry for waffling. I am a bit annoyed. We have explained why we want to monitor DD's diet and stop her getting too much of a taste for sweet things, but I feel like we've been ignored. We do let DD have treats on occasion but I like to keep an eye on it.
Should I have another word with MIL or am I being precious? They have DD two/three times a week.
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Should I speak to MIL again about feeding DD?
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SneezySnatcher · 18/02/2013 17:16
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