Hi, my 9 year old dd gets joint pain (mostly in knees and feet) - doctors have been aware for years, but last time we spoke, we decided not to go to hospital for testing as my GP told me the probable outcome would be that she would possibly get a diagnosis of juvenile arthitis and they would just recommend that she keep having painkillers as and when needed, which we already do.
The condition runs in my family. I had tests done at Gt Ormond St when I was 3 (inconclusive) and my mother has only recently managed to get an actual diagnosis of seronegative arthritis now that hers is significantly advanced.
I accept it's just one of those things we have to live with.... BUT sometimes I get the feeling my dd is asking for painkillers when she doesn't need them and faking the pain. She currently has a dose every couple of days, but in bad weather sometimes every day.
I know how much it hurts and would hate to doubt her and leave her in pain, but also I don't want taking painkillers to become a habit for her. She takes a very long time to get to sleep at night (I put her to bed at 8 and she is still awake now at 10pm and has just told me she needs painkillers) and often asks for them around now, so I'm wondering if she wants them to help her fall asleep.
Other common times are about 5 am and again I wonder if she has woken up and wants them to help get her off to sleep again, although I often wake up with pains of my own around this time, and am in no state to hang around and keep checking in on her at that time of day.
I was just wondering if anyone knows of a good natural balm or cream that is useful for rheumatic pain that I could use instead, so that if she's not really in serious pain I don't have to worry about painkiller addiction or the effects of taking calpol/nurofen frequently.
She does love the taste of the syrupy calpol/nurofen so I switched to the melt in the mouth tablets which are grainy and not tasty to try and put her off asking unless really needed.
If I'm unsure I generally tell her to wait a while, or for 15 mins. Sometimes she calls me back in later and still says she is in pain. I don't want to have to leave her til she is crying with pain before I believe it is genuine, but the thought she could be faking for meds is worrying.
Any suggestions?
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Rheumatism / joint pain - alternatives to painkillers (dd faking pain for meds?)
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hodgehegs · 14/11/2012 22:04
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