Haven't been on here for a while and boy has the site changed LOL
Anyhow, I'm not sure whether this is the right area but here we go...
DD (9) has started to 'develop' since she has had her tonsils out last year and with this seems to have come an abundant appetite and rather swiftly developing 'curves' and padding.
Obviously I know that it's not good to say 'stop eating now you're getting fat' as there are enough anorexic 9-10 year olds out there, but I was overweight as a child and don't want dd heading the same way, especially as she's already getting enough stick at school for being an early developer (I'll be doing another thread on that one) so really don't want a body weight issue to add to that... also dh and I are making a concerted effort to loose our excess baggage to lead by example, though that doesn't seem to really work with her ;).
So I have chats with her along the lines of 'it's ok to have treats etc. in moderation but if you eat too many of them they are not good for you'. However, that isn't quite getting through and I just had another head banging with her just now as she insists she's STARVING after a rather substantial breakfast about 1.5h ago - a small bowl of rice & chicken leftovers from last night, 2 small yoghurts and then I caught her eating a freddo frog that ds 6 had absconded with and given toher... (note to self, put all that stuff even 1 shelf higher, he's grown!!!). So I said she can have a banana or an apple and a glass of milk right now which resulted in quite some attitude and 'fine'...
I dont' want food to become an issue and am offering healthy choices with the unhealth choices in the pantry not being re-stocked once gone, but I'm not sure when to stop her eating... another problem is portion size. I say '1 pancake is a snack, 3 is a meal' and she wholeheartedly disagrees LOL
Sorry for rambling, not sure if that makes sense to anybody but me... thanks for any advice :)
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When should I stop dd (9) from eating???
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