I would welcome people's advice, and especially any teachers out there, on whether I should be starting reading with my DD.
She's 2 year 8 months and has always been quite advanced with her language (please don't think I just imagine all my children are just amazingly talented. My DS is gorgeous but I don't think he's advanced, he's clearly very different from her - so it's not just blind adoration!)
She has been showing interest in the different letters and words for a while, so we have gently, gently looked at abc books etc - maybe twice a week or whenever she wanted to. She's known the alphabet pretty well for at least six months now, so I decided to order some Jolly Phonics books and a DVD to see if she took to it.
She has; we've had it about a month now and she can now read easy words like 'cat', 'log' 'tin' etc without any help from me and is now doing more difficult ones too - 'frog' 'shop'.
The problem is my MIL. She is a retired primary school teacher and she clearly does not approve. I suspect she thinks I am going to teach DD wrong and that will make things difficult later. I don't know this but she's a very difficult woman and if I raised the subject there would be huffs and puffs and I can't face it. I should probably admit also that I don't like taking advice from her as it always seems to be a chance for her to get at me.
IMO if I am going at DD's pace and using the Jolly Phonics books then I think it's OK. I speak a few languages so I think I kind of have an idea abour learning language, albeit from an adult point of view.
What do you think? Am I encouraging her too early? Should I leave it to the experts/teachers when she starts school?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Join in for children's book recommendations.
Children's books
Am I being a pushy mother encouraging my DD to read too early?
14 replies
Westers · 06/02/2011 14:09
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.