Hi I have joined here as I could really do with some help and advice about my rights.

I am a self employed nanny, working for different families. My problem is about one family I worked for 6 hours a week, with no written contract.

As part of my job I use my own car to transport the children I look after. Recently the 5 year old child flipped the handle to slide the passenger seat forwards, didnt do it to the full extent, and then shoved the seat forwards causing the movement mechanism to break. This was while I was on duty, I had picked him up from school.

I feel it is reasonable to expect the family to pay the costs of repairs, since their child did it. They will not pay, they do not feel they owe me any money and have said they will pay £50 towards it, I am expecting costs to be £200 ish.

I find it disgusting to be honest how they have no morals and manners. In the light of this i have said I am not prepared to transport their children in my car. Same as quitting, but not.

Everyone I have spoken to agrees with me. Does anybody know legally what is right?

thank you

You are crazy to work without a contract tbh and if they won't pay I would leave.

Legality doesn't come in to it when you have no contract but morality does.

Car problem aside, have you spoken to them about a contract? Have they refused to do one, if so I would look elsewhere. Do you Think that it's not worth it for 6 hours, in which case you are SO wrong!

Car problem - was the child being properly supervised when this happened, after all, he/she is only 5 yrs old.

I think expecting the parents to pay is wrong.
If you use your car, you have to pay for damages.

JMI

hi thanks for responses so far.

Yes the child was being properly supervised, he had seen me flip the seat and had done it a few times before - there was not time for me to say please dont do that you havent lifted the handle properly before he shoved it.

I guess we didnt feel the need for a written contract since I knew them before I worked for them. Yes I was wrong. I know I now need one.

I think morally, if you break something, you offer to pay for the damages. same if it is your child. I would and have when I accidently broke something when I was babysitting a different family. Its only polite.

Morals don't come into it - it is a business. Or rather, morally you were in the wrong for asking the parents to cough up, and for refusing to fulfill the verbal contract that you made with them when they refused (if you agreed to transport their kids you are in breach of contract now, because verbal agreements are still valid, even if not written down)

It is your fault that you do not have a contract covering damage, and your fault that normal wear and tear such as this have not been factored into your costings.

And I am wondering why you never answered the question I posed on your other thread - have you upped your car insurance to cover business use? And have you taken out liability insurance?

Setting up as self employed to run your own business is not something that you can just jump into. there are legal requirements, health and safety requirements, and as you now know, you must plan for all eventualities - you should sit down and consider ALL the things that this entails; there are plenty of government support websites that will give you checklists to get started with.

if you are a se employed nanny, then very suprised you dont have a contract,as you being se are offering a service

Are you insured to carry the children in your own car? If you do then claim on that if you don't get 2 or 3 proper quotes for the repair, show them to the parent's and see if you could agree a figure.

in response to still squiffy, I did not have another thread. and yes I did up my policy when i explained about nannying. you seem very accusatory, I didnt even have another thread

if you want to talk about breach of contracts, they verbally agreed to pay it, then over 4 weeks later refused. I continued to work for the 4 weeks under the impression they would pay, and only refused to no longer have the children in my car when they went back on what they had told me.

to dan - if i claim on insurance it will stop my no claims, which is not worth it. but thanks for the advice.

Yes there were definately 2 threads started by the OP!