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Sign says no doulas allowed in this Utah OB/GYN,!

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dizietsma Fri 20-Nov-09 18:20:59
dizietsma Fri 20-Nov-09 18:26:47
joyfull Fri 20-Nov-09 20:22:25

Makes you glad to be in rainy old Britain - no?

girlylala0807 Fri 20-Nov-09 20:29:06

shock

Georgimama Fri 20-Nov-09 20:31:26

That sign is a shocker (course, nothing to stop you pretending said duola is your mum or sister) but please could someone translates the linked site's byline for me. I genuinely don't understand a word:

"Sociological Images encourages people to exercise and develop their sociological imaginations with discussions of compelling visuals that span the breadth of sociological inquiry."

dizietsma Fri 20-Nov-09 21:48:59

It's basically a site where people sociologically deconstruct images. If that makes it any clearer!

For example- examining the implicit gender roles promoted in advertising aimed at children- pink princesses for girls, blue pirates for boys etc.

That sign was posted because it exposes the inherent sexist and patriarchal attitudes of the doctors, and by extension some members of the medical community.

It really does make me glad I had my DD in the UK. The "doctors birth plan" in the second link horrifies me.

ImSoNotTelling Fri 20-Nov-09 21:59:15

What's a bradley birth plan? they don't seem to like that, whatever it is.

HoochieMommaMizzle Fri 20-Nov-09 22:02:14

It's on a par with no tinkers, hawkers or dogs.

ImSoNotTelling Fri 20-Nov-09 22:03:17

It occurs to me that this is probably the way many in the Uk operate - they just aren't so upfront about it grin

choufleur Fri 20-Nov-09 22:10:08

your link is a shocker dizietsma. i told my midwife to fuck off because she wanted me to turn onto my back in the pool so that she could monitor the heart beat. There must be better doctors than those in the US.

foxytocin Fri 20-Nov-09 22:10:28

Bradley is a childbirth Method along the lines of Lamaze or Hypnobirthing.

the fuckers. has to be a place like Utah though.

theyoungvisiter Fri 20-Nov-09 22:12:56

I don't sya this enough, but thank God for the NHS. And guess which nation has better maternal and baby mortality stats? hmm

info about the Bradley method here - it's pretty uneventful as far as I can work out.

ImSoNotTelling Fri 20-Nov-09 22:13:45

So it's a kind of, away with you and your breathing and relaxing and water and namby pamby womens stuff, and put your feet in the stirrups, there's a good girl.

ImSoNotTelling Fri 20-Nov-09 22:15:38

Thanks youngvisitor

Georgimama Fri 20-Nov-09 22:15:44

No, I'm none the wiser.

Cadmum Fri 20-Nov-09 22:20:29

The OB birth plan (in the second link) is the very experience that I had with DB#4... I have yet to come to terms with the whole experience. I felt utterly violated and at no point considered myself or my unborn to be 'safe'.

This took place in the USA so no big surprise there...

Their grammar is crap too. It sounds as if they have only one patient. (Yay - The pedants are revolting!)

jasper Fri 20-Nov-09 22:22:56

The blurb underneath is a bit over the top - all that stuff about" refusing women the right to deny them free access to their vaginas"

Cadmum Fri 20-Nov-09 22:23:29

Let's hope that they only have one patient left... grin

choosyfloosy Fri 20-Nov-09 22:23:53

Does the US really have worse maternal and baby mortality stats when you split the insured and uninsured, though? I know the US was somewhere around 16th shock in 1990 for infant mortality overall, but surely that must include a lot of uninsured women who can't get antenatal care. I wonder where they sit for the insured population, which are going to be the ones getting this sort of treatment.

Personally, though, these signs are just horrible!

jasper Fri 20-Nov-09 22:24:39

the second link is completely shocking

Georgimama Fri 20-Nov-09 22:26:58

The second link is truly terrifying. He induces at 39 weeks? And stirrups?

foxytocin Fri 20-Nov-09 22:32:34

choosy, if you read Ina May Gaskin, she talks about the maternal death rate being schockingly higher than it actually is reported by the CDC. She explains why she thinks it is significantly underreported. It is not just about being uninsured and no antenatal care. It made a scary read.

Cadmum Fri 20-Nov-09 22:36:14

I was induced at 38 weeks and the he was a she. The biggest difference in my case was that she was not up-front or honest about her intentions/procedures.

I can only imagine how traumatic it would have been if my first delivery had been so awful.

dizietsma Fri 20-Nov-09 22:56:13

Oh Cadmum sad, I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you been in contact with the Birth Trauma Association?

AFAIK the uninsured still get to give birth in hospitals due to medicaid. DH is American and his uninsured cousin was on medicaid. She was induced at 40 weeks for "too little fluid" (a common US OB excuse for induction) and after 3 days of labour with no progress, surprise surprise, ended up having a c-section.

We want to move to the US in a few years, but I've insisted we have our 2nd child in the UK before we go because I am so horrified by what I hear about US Obstetrics. Plus they don't offer G & A, and I found that really helpful in labour. Don't get me wrong, I have my issues with our local maternity hospital, but I'd rather take my chances here with the slightly annoying NHS than the "put your feet in the stirrups and shut your mouth" US.

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