I think I will need to have a planned section if I decide to have another child and the thought terrifies me. I am worried about the experience of surgery and the prolonged recovery with what seems to be an exhaustive list of complications. Also, after a traumatic delivery and a poor surgical repair first time around (see below), my husband and I find it hard to trust anyone with this sort of major surgery. Can anyone help?
The background to this:
After some nasty third degree tearing during an emergency forceps delivery (baby 'stuck' and in distress), I have needed further surgery to re-cut and stitch (sorry!) the repair, and am still (9 months on) seeing a consultant about some minor urinary incontinence. Advice about whether a subsequent vaginal delivery could lead to tearing/double incontinence has been very variable, but the excellent uro-gynae consultant I am seeing says a normal delivery would be possible 'if it is very well controlled to avoid tearing'. My last delivery was truly awful and anything BUT controlled (midwife refused to examine me despite my explaining family history of fast labour - instead tried to send me home and then disappeared never to return; although my husband kept going out and asking for gas and air it took 1h 45mins before anyone even CAME IN to the room, which was only 15mins before I started pushing etc.etc.). So I don't feel I could trust anyone to oversee my labour, and that leaves me with a planned c-section which terrifies me. HELP!
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can anyone offer encouraging experiences of planned c-section?
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fluppy · 27/05/2005 20:56
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