I'm booked in for a second elcs a fortnight on Monday.
The trouble is that I had the misfortune to have a really brusque, unfeeling midwife who did the final preps before I was taken to theatre. E.g she didn't have a good bedside manner and spoke quite sharply to me. I was also wearing a gown and she wanted to check underneath which would have meant being exposed before dh and other people in the room, when I aked if I could be covered up she asked me why I was shy I was shy in front of my dh as he'd have seen it all before.
I felt like my dignity was being stripped away as silly as that sounds. I was terrified of the op you see and this didn't help.
Is there anything which can be done if a similar situation arises? I know it is a day-to-day job for the staff, but surely they must realise that we are extremely nervous?
I'm worrying more about this aspect than the actual cs to be honest
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What to do if you get a less than nice midwife? - esp elcs
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flowersingrange · 05/10/2008 19:43
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