when i had ds i had a 2nd degree tear and the sewing up was more painful than birth. He came quick at 4 hours and it was so intense i didnt have time to think about positions etc and gave birth propped up on the bed. Also no one prepared me for how much pain id be in afterwards. I couldnt get upstairs unaided and couldnt sit without a pillow for 8 weeks.
I also put in my birth plan i wanted as much help as poss to prevent tearing. I remember them holiding something on perenium but think that was all the help i got. That and panting.
Now pg with #2 and really want to avoid tearing/stitches at all costs esp as i'll have a 2 yr old running round. Those of you who did not tear please can you tell me your experiences and what i can do to help tearing? Im desperate to know there is hope for me!
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those of you who did not tear or need stitche....advice needed
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mad4mybaby · 28/07/2008 19:28
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