I am 38 wks pregnant with number 2 and I'm hoping for a VBAC. To cut a long story short I'm currently in the position where I have finally got the consultant to agree to not continually monitor me and I'm going to be "allowed" to labour in a room on the labour ward which is set up in the same way as the MLU and be "allowed" an active labour. Have just spoken to head midwife and she has informed me I have zero chance of labouring in the MLU because of trust policy (I know I could/ should fight this but it's been hard work getting this far).
Head midwife is very supportive of VBAC and sounds like she's fighting a daily battle with the trust/ hospital/ other midwives on numerous issues. I'm not totally happy with the way things are going so far but she made me feel happier than I have been.
However, she did suggest (in order to support my VBAC) that I stay at home as long as I feel able to once labour has started because it is policy to artificially rupture membranes if they haven't already gone by the time you reach 4cms dilated. This seems totally ridiculous to me.
I am intending to stay at home as long as possible and am hoping I won't encounter this ridiculous situation but I'm also fully aware that I won't know how dilated I am until someone can check... So, I have 2 questions....
- From what I know/ have read it is likely that AROM will increase pain for me, can increase pressure on babies head, can increase the likelihood of infection, doesn't really speed up progression of labour effectively. Are there any more cons? And are there any reals pros which I should know about?
- I can refuse to allow them to do this to me, can't I?
Thanks in advance for any advice.