Well that's a bit of a lie but what I meant is that just because it's terrible desn't mean that it's not positive, if that makes sense.
Yes it bloody hurts like nothing before. BUT- you can do it. It's what your body is made for and it won't hurt forever. My ds was born 1 week early, waters broke at home at 11pm contractions started at midnight, we were in the hospital by 02:30 and he was born at 03:18. Used my tens machine from the start of contractions and had 10 mins of gas and air in hospital (they took it away as it was making me too comfortable to push, grrr the evil evil things )
And I felt really "able" all the way through. There was not one point when I though that I wasn't going to be able to do it, as basic an experience as labour is (lots of pain, primeval animal noises etc!) YOU CAN DO IT
This isn't a thread to boast about a "brilliant" birth experience, more to share a secret- that even if it's a bit scary and painful not all births are traumatic for the mums involved and you won't necessarily be left still telling your sorry tale to all and sundry when your children are at primary school. Not to say of course that some mums don't have a traumatic time because of course there is the flip side too.
Any more positive birth experiences to be shared out there?
Good luck new mums
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NEW MUMS TO BE READ THIS- labour isn't always terrible
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Minkus · 12/11/2007 10:14
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