Friend is OK but lo is in SCBU and looks like it may be quite a long haul to get him home. They have nothing for him as they were putting off shopping until later.
I am worried about sending flowers or teddy bears etc as I don't want to tempt fate or upset her. I have not spoken to her but want to show we (me and other friends) are thinking of them all.
Any thoughts? especially if you have been in her situation?
I was thinking of a care package - Premie nappies, a few small baby grows, hats etc but I have no experience of SCBU so maybe they are provided? They are on a low income but I don't want them to feel like a Charity case as they are very proud people and live within their means.
I just want to help or is that me being selfish?
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callmeovercautious · 15/10/2007 22:19
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