I had an emergency c section early yesterday morning after a very traumatic and long labour. I'm still in hospital and confused because i feel in total agony (like to get out of bed is a nightmare- to change or even just lift my beautiful daughter would be impossible). The midwives are strongly suggesting I have to get on with it, and that I'll heal better if I push through and get used to the soreness. I just attempted this approach and found myself holding my baby and screaming 'help' as I was convinced I'd collapse from the pain. Is this really a state of mind issue? Do the painkillers not work for some people? The other women on the ward seem to be having a much easier time, and some delivered via section more recently than me. Any opinions appreciated. I'm meant to be going home tomorrow. DH is being heroic by the way, but I want to look after my precious first baby myself too - he is doing everything for me!
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