Hi Ladies,
This is my first post so I am v. nervous and hopeful that I have posted in the right place!
So I am currently 31wks + 3 and doing well. I was living in Falkirk and so all my antenatal care was through forth valley royal hospital. I have since moved doctors and hospital as I am living in Glasgow. I am now registered with the Princess Royal.
I had my first midwife appointment today at the Princess Royal just to go over my notes and to be introduced to the team. I had been planning a water birth at FVRH which I was very excited about and so I mentioned this to the midwife. She then called down to the birthing area to confirm and told me that this was not going to be an option at Princess royal due to my BMI. My BMI is 43 and the limit is 40 for water births there. I am not going to lie I am absolutely devastated! I cried and cried (hormones) and to my utter shock the midwife said to me " Don't worry we have baths available on the ward so you can have a nice bath after the birth." What? I have no idea why she thought that anecdote was relevant!!!
Anyway I am now in a position where I have no idea what to do. I know I have to be flexible when it comes to labour but do I have any other options? Could I have a home birth with a pool or would they take issue with this too? I can't go back to FVRH as I have moved to far away.
Any advice would be helpful!
Also, due to PCOS I struggled to conceive for 2 years +, during which time I was trying to get my weight down and I did manage to lose some weight and whilst being pregnant I have lost a further 22 pounds. So although I know my weight is the cause of this problem I am now just trying to find the best way forward.
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Devastating water birth news! Please help
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Tracey92 · 04/05/2016 12:15
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