I'm supposed to be booking a home birth but at the moment I feel like I don't have enough or the right support to go through with it. My husband is being utterly useless. I've tried talking to him about it, telling him what I need, telling him the support he could be offering me but it's not sinking in.
I understand that men sometimes feel a bit useless when it comes to the big event and they see their partner in pain but I've been in pain for weeks with spd and sciatica, I can barely walk 100 yards and I can't even get him to lift a finger around the house. I've asked him if he has concerns or is worried about it but he says no. He says he wants the home birth but will not help me.
Should I just face it that I'm going to have to go to the hospital to have this baby on my own?
I don't have a mum, or any close friends, I can't afford a doula either. This isn't my first baby so I know what I'm doing, and if I go alone he can watch the children.
Sorry for the rambling, I wasn't sure where to post this anyway. I just feel a bit..let down.
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Think I've changed my mind on the home birth
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NoPityRequired · 18/08/2015 16:49
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