Hi folks.
i had my dd2 last Wednesday. I know i should be over it by now but cant stop dwelling on it.
i had planned a homebirth - had to battle a bit for it due to age (43). Baby was transverse up to 38.5 weeks which also means i refused admission to hospital for planned section at 38 weeks. I worked to move her and she was head down but only engaged 1/5.
labour started last Tuesday night. All good, kept active etc and was 7cm when midwives arrived at 8am. Each contraction had really bad pain in left side, not back or stomach. A little gas and air.
examied 9.30 - urges to push but only 9 CMS. At this point everything changed. I can't get my head round it. Midwife said back to back but we would get her out. I laboured in,pool, out of it, squatting, with every other contraction an,urge to push, which I did. No progress. This continued for 2 hrs and I was tired and disheartened. By 11.30, still 9cm but with swollen anterior lip of cervix. Midwife tried to manually push it back through contractions - no avail. Had catheter fitted and when urine tested at 1pm , ketones (?) found.
midwife said that I would keep pushing but baby wouldn't be born that day. She recommended we go to hospital. I had lost al faith in myself and off I went in ambulance,
on ward they induced me to get to 10 CMS but didn't do anything to help me get her into position. within 1 hr they said she wasn't for coming out. Was getting distressed and I agreed to section. After this they said she was coming out brow / nose 1st.
I am finding it hard to work out what more, if anything, I could have done to move her and if only I was able to keep going for longer, had stronger pushes at home, could I have got her out??
I guess I am,trying to find answers and this post is part of working that out.
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planned home birth - emergency csection
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weeonion · 12/11/2014 22:02
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