I realise this is not the right place to post this thread but thought it might be the place where I would be likely to get the best response.
I have birth to my second baby 9 weeks ago today and had a period start a week ago but still haven't gone back to having a sex life with my husband as yet. I feel really stressed out about contraception as I feel there is no long term solution for us and we haven't had sex for nearly a year as I can't do it while I'm pregnant for risk of bleeding so shortly after I found out I was pregnant with my second child I stopped anything. My husband doesn't say anything or pressure but now I've had the all clear at my postnatal check up I'd like to resume a normal sex life. I'm not happy to have a coil as I don't like the idea of something left inside me and I took the pill for 4 days, I'm meant to take it tonight as day 5 but I haven't bothered as I am uneasy about putting hormones into my body after two children and being 33. All the options are hormone ones and I think it's unsafe now. I know many people who just use condoms but I'd be scared in case one split or came off so it's just a big problem. Does anyone have any suggestions or been in a similar position? I wonder what most people do after children and as they start to get older. Any advice greatly appreciated.
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mrsm22 · 23/08/2014 22:15
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