Basically my baby is due end of November and before I got pregnant we had agreed that my brother in law and his girlfriend (whom iv never met) could stay at ours for a month......
When I found out I was pregnant I assumed theyd still come but stay elsewhere..... How wrong! They have now booked flights for two weeks before my due date meaning they'll be here almost two months!
I'm officially freaking out about the fact they'll be in my house when I'm having contractions/ trying to have a bath/ get ready for hospital! Then they'll be in our house when I return with baby! This makes me really uncomfortable but my partner says I'm being selfish!
Also just don't want people lingering in corridors while I'm in labour and barging in as soon as my baby's born!
Also my mil has stated that I need not worry about 'the mess' at home because shell be cleaning everywhere before I get home!
Just want some privacy and space to sort myself out and breastfeed my baby! :( this is just the worst thing! More worried about this than the actual labour!
Am I just being ridiculous?
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bluefriend · 30/07/2014 23:27
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