Hi, I have had my birth debrief and I still have not had any closure about how my body was managed at the c-section. The consultant answered all my questions and did offer that he would personally handle my case if I got pregnant again. Tbh this is no consolation to me as I am still absolutely petrified of how unpredictable the whole thing is.
My partner thinks that a complaint would just be a waste of my time and energy as nothing would come off it. He thinks I should move on now and he agrees with the consultant that since it was an emergency c-section we should be glad that the baby is ok and I there is only a cosmetic issue with the scar.
I think that the fact someone else may have had a worse experience is no excuse. I am feeling confused and unable to move past it. I still can't look at my scar. I find it quite upsetting. I am also feeling vain and that is making me feel upset about being upset.
Sorry for the rambling post but if I were to make a complaint how would I go about it and are my reasons for the complaint valid?
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Has anyone complained about their childbirth experience? How to go about it?
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zinher · 10/05/2014 19:02
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