this is my first child and i was induced to prevent the risk of infection. the pain and the whole pallava with the inducing and delivery is still effecting me today .i absolutely adore my son and would love to have more as soon as possible but when the chain of thoughts come to the end of the pregnancy i panic and swear not to go down that line!i very much enjoyed the pregnancy and have cherished each and every second with my son since but that 8 hours of my life has scarred me.my sister in law gave birth 3 days ago to her 3rd son and she had the most amazing birth!i went in to see her and she was so calm and collected and her birth apparently was a breeze(obviously painful but nothing she wants to dwell on!)with no tear, not even a scratch.as for me i had second degree tear and the scar is so bumpy every time i pass my fingers on it i remember the ordeal.do i sound like a moan?im going on i know but i want to hear what other mothers have to say on this and is there light at the end of the tunnel?my midwife was terrible and didnt help the process, i wish i had put in a complaint about her.at the point of finally pushing out my ds she was in the corner of the room writing notes and i was screaming "can someone tell me when to push?"thankfully my husband was there and was able to make the best of a bad situation, you could say he was the midwife, thats how useless she was.at the point of discharge from labour ward i was violently shaking and crying and she didnt even look at me,i feel teary even now thinking about this.so now i want to try for another boybecause they are so delicious but fear not going into labour, being induced, long labour and a cow for a midwife, oh and a bigger tear that the last one!!!help
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Ds is 7 months but i still cant get over the trauma of the birth!
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kutilputil · 07/07/2006 09:35
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