Hi,
Really need some advice!
I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby, I have always had a fear of childbirth. This isn't the usual anxiety associated with giving birth when the date is fast approaching this is a debilitating fear (constant tears, feeling physically sick and nightmares etc). I have been referred under Consultant care as I have a very broken coccyx and had a termination when I was much younger (I'm mid 30's now) which resulted in having to stay in hospital for several days as I hemorrhaged due to my cervix being extremely long and narrow.
The consultant and midwife are pushing me to have a VB but have offered a csection if I 'absolutely need to'. I've been told I need to try to relax but that is pretty much it. I really need more support and advice than I am getting, as it is affecting every area of my life. Has anyone else experienced this? Apart from being told to 'man up'! If it was that easy I would!
Thanks
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Severe fear of childbirth..
Dot12 · 16/07/2013 14:29
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