I just cannot decide between a VBAC (apparently I'm a good candidate because I got to 10cm dilated last time after an hour and a half) and choosing an ELCS.
I always thought I wanted an ELCS, as I'm a total wimp re: the pain of child birth, am nervous that my narrow, straight hips will mean intervention and tearing, and that I believe (although correct me if you think I'm wrong) the risk to the baby is slightly lower re: oxygen deprivation.
But I'm now considering a VBAC because I'm very anxious about the longer recovery time making things hard on my DS - we play lots of very physical games and jump around all the time. And I also don't like the idea of being stuck at home unable to drive for six weeks.
What I want to ask is, for those of you who've opted for an ELCS - is the recovery as bad as the midwives/consultants (who are pushing me to have a vbac) are saying? Or did you find it better than expected? Or worse? Any advice/stories would be much appreciated.
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ELCS with second pregnancy: is recovery THAT bad?
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lifesobeautiful · 16/04/2013 21:50
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