Sorry if this is long - I'm probably worrying unnecessarily here and realise that every labour is different but grateful for any advice.
With DD my waters went at midnight, phoned the labour ward who said I could go in when my contractions were regular, no more than 5 minutes apart, lasting a minute and I couldn't talk through them.
That never happened, I could pretty much talk through all of them and they were anything from 2 - 7 minutes apart, lasting 20 - 40 seconds. However by 4am I had the most horrendous feeling of pressure in my bum (thought my pelvis was being split open!)
DH was getting worried at this point and rang the midwife who really didn't want to let me go in and he had to really argue the toss with them. We got there about 4:20 when I was asked a few questions, directed to a room and told they'd check me in a minute. They came back at 5am to discover I was 10cm and DD was born at 6am.
I have no complaints with the care, they were really busy and when they realised I was ready to push I had excellent attention.
I'm due again on Friday and I'm worried the same may happen again but even quicker! Is there anything that I can say to the midwife to get them to believe I need to go in that doesn't involve the frequency of the contractions or an inability to talk??
We're living with my inlaws at the moment so birthing a home really isn't on my wish list!
TIA
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Best way to get labour unit midwife to believe I'm in labour
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PogoBob · 24/12/2012 23:51
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