Hi all,
I have birth three weeks ago and sustained a 3rd degree tear which was stitched up straight after delivery in theatre under a spinal. I was sent home with various drugs - pain killers, antibiotics and lactulose and fybogel to soften my stools.
After an initial few days of walking like John Wayne and feeling like my internal organs were going to drop out of me I started to feel a lot better (due to the painkillers I suspect.)
I was incredibly worried about being left with no quality of life due to incontinence of bladder or bowel after googling third degree tears. So far I've not wee'd or pooed myself (thank goodness!) but when I need to poo I have little warning and need to get to the toilet within a few minutes. I'm hoping this is due to the lactulose and fybogel I'm still taking. Also when I start to wee I can't stop mid flow - but is this normal after birth regardless of tearing?
I'm trying to eat a high fibre diet to ensure I don't get backed up and I take daily lavender baths. In the last week or so I've started to feel a bit more sore - is that because I'm no longer on painkillers?
Basically I just want to hear other people's experiences of this.
If I've had no incontinence problems so far does that mean I'm unlikely to get any?
Is the sudden rush to do a poo because of the lactulose/fybogel? Did you find that went once you had finished those?
What does physio involve? I've been told I can have this.
Am I likely to need a c-section next time?
Will I ever enjoy sex again???
Once you finished the stool softeners did you carry on eating a high fibre diet? Was it agony to do a normal poo? (Am dreading this!)
I know everyone's experiences are different so would love to hear how it was for you. I feel this has marred my birth a little and, although I've had no major problems as yet, I keep expecting to...
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Experiences of 3rd degree tear
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MayimBialik · 08/12/2012 17:40
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