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Teen son has porn on pc - of a local teacher

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Worriedmum1961 Tue 01-Mar-11 10:38:36

Hiya,

I have had to deal with the subject of porn on my sons pc before, and he knows my thoughts, but this has now gone a stage further, as the pictures he has saved are of a local person who is apparently a teacher.

According to him they were found on a website by a friend of a friend. I can manage my childs access to the internet, but should I do anything about the person in the pictures??

kerrymumbles Tue 01-Mar-11 11:57:22

unless she is having sex in the classroom or with students i don't think it's any of your business.

JeremyVile Tue 01-Mar-11 12:00:56

Is this homemade porn, do you know?

Because there us a chance that she (assuming its a she?) is unaware that its on the internet.

Rannaldini Tue 01-Mar-11 12:05:48

unfortunately she probably doesn't know as JV says

this happened to an acquaintance of mine.
her brother saw it.....took loads of hassle to get it down of the website and she was beyond mortified

videoed by a boyfriend without her knowledge and posted on the web once they split up

Worriedmum1961 Wed 02-Mar-11 13:17:07

Further Info....

I understand the 'mind my own business' comment but the majority of the pictures are very explicit and have been taken in public areas, in some cases with other people exposing themselves as well, at what appear to be local beauty spots or places that cause shock. For instance leaning up against a police car and next to the welcome sign of the towns university.

I think it's a question of should I make the local educational authorities aware of what one of the people they entrust to protect, morally guide and educate our children is willing and capable of doing?

JeremyVile Wed 02-Mar-11 20:19:26

Not sure, it's a difficult one.

On the one hand no one is being hurt, doesn't even sound particularly explicit - just a bit of exhibitionism.

My concern would still be that this person is unaware that the pictures are out the for anyone (potentially) to see. I just assume it's fairly likely that a teacher would not choose to make these pictures public.

I wouldn't contact her employers/education authority becuase s/he hasn't actually done anything wrong - posing for these pictures is not indicative of anything immoral, it's just a kink.

The problem is that the pictures are on the internet and quite probably without her/him being aware.

If anything, I'd be inclined to find out from ds where he found them and then contact (email?) the teacher just to give a heads up and then they have a chance of getting them removed if they want to.

pipsqueak Wed 02-Mar-11 20:23:14

report to the LA or governors -let them sort it

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ragged Wed 30-Mar-11 18:26:41

are you sure the pictures are genuine? Her head not photoshopped onto someone else's body?

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