Hi all,
I have a 4 year old. His behaviour lately is odd. The more and more I look into it he has quite a few autistic/Asperger traits.
For example-
Cries if children touch him and he doesn't want to be touched.
Cries if someone touches him with sticky/messy hands.
Cried today because a girl called him the bad guy- he said he wasn't a bad guy he was a good boy. Didn't grasp the concept of goodies/baddies.
Starting to want to play more on his own.. Today he played for an hour on his own at soft play and had a meltdown because there was people in the area he wanted to use.
Won't get messy with paint or sand.
Won't initially respond if you say his name..might have to say it twice and we usually get huh?
Doesn't get sarcasm.. For example he was scared and I said oh dear you almost pooped your self and be checked and said in havnt pooed
Behaviour is getting worse... Starting to physically hit other children
Hitting out at parents
Hits himself in the face when angry
He struggles to see consequences for his actions such as its always someone else's fault or he didn't do it. I explain in detail about the correct way to act and respond and he says ok and then 10 mins later he repeats the same behaviour.
Talks in a high pitched tone quite often,
Obsession with trains... You have to play trains his way. If you don't play the way he wants he gets frustrated. He knows every character of Thomas. Has a good imagination with his trains though.
He is a fussy eater also. Not picky eater but very fussy. Only eats safe foods... Reluctant to try anything. Sleeps well. School report says he's doing well... Exceptionally bright with number.
I don't want to look for a label that's not there but he has a few cousins that have autism on different levels, other family members with severe social difficulties. It seems to run quite high through both sets of family on the paternal side.
My worry is the fact he screams when we're out and he's struggling in a social situations... But seems to be getting worse as he's getting older. The fact that I can't get him to drink from a cup and he starts flapping his hands?
I don't want to look for something that's not there but I don't want to ignore a possibility. He had speech and language from 20 months as he had speech regression then but was discharged.
Any thoughts?
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Child mental health
Family with autism... Wondering if my 4 year old is on the spectrum also?
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Perriwinkle9991 · 23/08/2016 22:18
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