Hi,
My 16 year old son has Asperger syndrome and mental health difficulties. The mental health difficulties (primarily anxiety and OCD type intrusive thoughts) have been getting worse lately and are almost certainly connected to a period of tension in the family (due to Child Protection issues and separation) and our very recent house move.
Last week two of my son's support workers invited him to communicate with them via e-mail. I think this invitation came because my son will not meet them face to face at the moment and communicates through notes passed under his bedroom door. However, in his e-mails he told the support staff of his distress and that he was worried that he might sexually assault someone (this is part of his OCD). The support workers alerted their managers and the managers felt duty bound to alert the police. The police came on Friday and my son told the officer in charge (via notes) about his diary which contained a 'plan' to carry out the assault. My son has written 'plans' before and they relate to the detail of his thoughts not his intentions.
The officer read out the entry in my son's diary as if it was the work of a serial killer. She had not the power to section my son but she contacted CAMHS, who told her they were already treating my son and that he will not act on these thoughts. The officer, however, insisted that a doctor came to my house to assess my son with a view to compulsory admission to hospital.
My son locked himself in the toilet and remained there for seven hours until the doctor came. I managed to gain access three or four times and checked on him and he was very distressed. He thought he had done something terribly wrong. Eventually the doctor came and my son agreed to go into hospital under threat of section. He was absolutely terrified and physically sick. he had to be sedated and taken to the hospital under police escort in an ambulance.
The next day, i visited him and he was still distressed about the incident, so I asked if I could take him home. This was readily agreed by the CAMHS team who know my son well. They said, my son posed no threat to anyone but himself and they knew I would look after him well.
Now I am angry and confused. I would welcome any opinions about how my son has been treated. If people think agencies have acted in my son's best interest, then perhaps I will be able to accept their actions a little better.
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My son and the police
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HarHer · 21/12/2015 09:45
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