Most of our friends have been amazing, but every so often someone says something that is just so unhelpful I wish I had never told them. Like these:
"It's surprisingly common you know - lots of young people go through this." (I know they do and that's really terrible but doesn't make it any easier)
"A year is a v short time in a persons life." (A year is forever for someone who is struggling to get through each minute.)
"So apart from that how was your summer?" (Everything else is completely trivial compared to the pain we're going through.)
"You need to tell her to get out and socialise more." (WTF!!!)
And some things that do help:
"Is there anything I can do to help?"
"You need to look after yourself."
"So how are you feeling?"
Anyone got any more?
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What to say/ not to say to a parent whose child has depression
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Innismhor · 11/10/2013 23:03
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