My eight year old daughter has started stealing food both at home and school. I say "stealing" because she is secretive and attempts to hide wrappers etc. afterwards. It is the secrecy which is really worrying me, plus the fact that she has gained lots of weight recently and is now overweight.
I'm certain this has nothing to do with being hungry. She can help herself to the fruit bowl at home and I try to encourage her to do this if she is hungry, and to take a piece of fruit to school for morning break. It is never healthy stuff that she takes though - always sweets and chocolate.
We are trying to focus on feelings and reasons why, so have asked her why she is doing it, and she says she does not know. We try to encourage her to think about how the children whose chocolate she has stolen feel etc. We are also talking to her about healthy eating, healthy choices and trying to support her to develop some self-control but at present she has none. We've also got rid of any temptation in the house so there are no more crisps, chocolate or sweets around. How do we balance this with helping her to develop self-control though?
School have arranged a referral to the School Nurse Team. I suspect I may just get the standard healthy eating advise though, which I already know. 8 seems so young to be thinking about binging and compulsive eating. Am I over-reacting?
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Child mental health
Daughter stealing food - could this be a sign of an eating disorder
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a1s2d3 · 19/07/2012 11:32
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