I'm worried that my 12 year old DSD might be developing anorexia.
She has lost a lot of weight in the past 6 months (going from chubby to skinny) that we had put down to a growth spurt. However, recently she has gone from keen on food to always saying she isn't hungry, doesn't want dinner, ate earlier, only wants a tiny bit and today I saw her throw most of the dinner she took in the bin (usually what they don't eat gets left on their plates for us to clear up). She has low blood pressure, is always very lethargic and sleepy and often visits the loo before meals are over. Today after throwing away dinner, she did ask for popcorn a few hours later and more popcorn but that is a relatively low calorie food. She was never fussy about food so it's not that and she was always a 2nd helpings girl who was a bit chubby as a child. DP always described her as a kid 'who really loves her food'.
Also she is taking a strong interest in drinking coffee/energy drinks which I saw as a big warning sign. I am particularly worried as one of her best friends who she holds on a pedestal (but doesn't see that often) is suffering from full blown anorexia (she is a year older). We thought it might open her eyes to the alarming nature of it but her grandmother worries she might be 'inspired' by all the 'special attention' this girl gets for it. She gets very upset, anxious and whiny when her dad tries to insist she needs a meal and must eat it, often with tears.
I'm feeling super-worried tonight. I know DP is too. He even works with kids with anorexia (an inpatient psychiatric facility) but I'm worried he's in denial, convinced she won't lie to him and desperately doesn't want to accept it. He tried talking to her mother about it but she's out at work or at the gym a lot and didn't seem to have noticed anything. (Her mother is in a rather neurotic state about remaining slim herself at the moment). Perhaps it's me that's over-reacting? Any insight from experience as to how we should handle it at this stage gratefully received.
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Child mental health
Possible anorexia in 12 year old
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FjordMor · 03/07/2012 21:40
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