Sorry to write a long post. Any urgent advice appreciated.
A young man - very close friend of our family - is coming to spend the weekend with us. He is currently living far away from his own home and family (in a different country). He has developed a very serious eating disorder - eating less than a toddler, and has lost so much weight that, in recent photos, he is skeletal in appearance, and looks like someone in the last stages of life. I am told that in the last 2 weeks he has started to eat more.
I want to persuade him to leave his current job, return to the UK and concentrate on his health. And I also want to help him start to enjoy food more.
Other friends and his own family say that we should all let him try to get over this by himself, and just be available to listen. I am sure that would work if we or other friends had more time with him. But he won't be seeing any other friends or family for the next week or two, and in that time he could deteriorate even more or simply collapse. Should I get him to see a doctor while he is with us? Should I try hard to persuade him to go home for treatment? Should I just keep offering regular fairly small amounts of good food? We are all (his friends and family) spending sleepless nights worrying, but as he is at a distance, none of us is actually doing anything.
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Child mental health
young man with anorexia
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kphr · 21/06/2012 22:04
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