Hi
Quick history. I live at home with my dd(2) and my mum. Mum was admitted into hospital in October with a urine infection (she had become very confused and lacked mobility - though she had polio as a child so her mobility isn't fantastic anyway). After much ineptitude, which I can't be bothered to go into and 8 weeks in hospital she was discharged to a rehabilitation bed in a local care home, then 2 weeks in another care home for some physio. By this point it was decided that she had dementia.
I was always very adamant that if I was able I would like mum to come home. It's her home and she has been great to allow me and my dd to live with her. Social services offered a care package, which I thought would be more than adequate so she came home.
Problem is that now I'm not coping at all. The care she recieves is shocking. I have tried to speak to social services but I feel that now she is at home with me they don't really want to know. The home care people also arent being very helpful. Mum is so confused and doesnt want me to help her. I just don't really know who to talk to now.
I've heard age concern are quite good, has anybody had any dealings with them?
Any advice would be really greatfully recieved
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Squitch · 07/01/2009 22:10
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