He has been in hosp. 3 months with liver and kidney failure and twice we were told it was unlikely he'd make it. Told to tell family and friends to come and say bye etc etc. As you can imagine it's been a long haul. Anyway he has turned a corner and has been moved to rehab ward. He is also suffering from mrsa and c diff and is being nursed in a side ward. He says he is going to discharge himself which terrifies me as I am caring for my mum at their home ( I live nearby) They are both alcoholics and mum has chosen to continue drinking and is physically declining again (rollercoaster or what) she has stomach ascites and all the rest, doesn't get out of bed except to get alcohol etc.
The bit than worries me as well as everything else is - I have two young children - one 8 and one 15 months so HOW ON EARTH AM I GOING TO BE ABLE too care for them both now they have disabilities and they need chores round the house doing when when I won't be able to take the kids in the house because of the horrendous infections???
They are not even allowed on the ward to visit him.
Someone give me some perspective here - I am cracking up. Thanks.
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Someone calm me down please! Dad threatening to discharge himself - has mrsa and c-diff!!!!
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janestillhere · 01/03/2008 13:36
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